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What does a doula do?
What does a Birth Doula do?
The
services offered by a doula vary greatly according to the needs of the
mother-to-be / parents-to-be. A doula's role has to be flexible to fit
in with the given situation e.g. the type of support will differ for a
first time mum to that of a woman who has children already. Every birth
is unique and therefore every woman's experience is also unique.
Before Childbirth, the doula will usually
meet with the mother (or couple) twice face-to-face, and then
be available by phone or for additional meetings as appropriate.
The purpose is to build a good relationship with understanding
and trust.
During Labour, the doula is able to offer help
and suggestions on comfort measures such as breathing, relaxation,
movement and positioning. The doula can also encourage the father
to participate in the birth to a level at which he feels comfortable.
The doula's most important role is to provide nurturing, continuous
support and reassurance in helping the mother have the birth she
wants. She will support the mother throughout the labour - however
long.
After childbirth, the doula will follow up with
a couple of postnatal visits to help the new mum settle at home
with her new baby, or alternatively, the mother may decide to
employ a postnatal doula for a period of (generally) 6 - 8 weeks.
What services does a Postnatal Doula offer
?
It will
vary according to the mother or the family's wishes. The services include
moral and practical support to the mother and family. The doula will help
with breastfeeding, the housework, older siblings and baby of course.
She will encourage the mother to care for herself as well as the baby.
The doula can do some food shopping, prepare tea/dinner, make school runs,...
A bit like if the new mother had her own mother there for a few days after
the birth - to give support and help around the house.
Postnatal
doulas are usually far more flexible than other (hired) postnatal support
and will help the mother in the tasks that she needs most. |